May 27, 1987 – May 19, 2009

Steven Olszewski, or “Steve-O” as he was known to his friends, was a wonderful son and little brother. With his untimely passing this year, I would like to share with you some stories of Steven that help to illustrate what a wonderful person (and amazing brother) he was. Over the 21 years we had together, we shared so many memories that it is difficult to recall just a few to share, but I will try my best.

Steven wanted desperately to help those in need — whether they were strangers, family or dear friends. One of the most vivid memories I have in my time with my brother is how he demonstrated what a caring, loving individual he was. While Steven was a student, working only part-time and making little money, he was always there to lend a hand to those in need. He would give the last dollar he had in his wallet to the Salvation Army bell-ringer during Christmas or to the collection for the children’s orphanage at our church. His caring nature was not exclusive to strangers, but also his family and friends. Steven was the first person to comfort a friend in need. He was there for me when I needed him to act as my protector and he was a loving son who never failed to tell his dad how much he loved and respected him.

I believe that my brother left a legacy for us when he left us in May, a week before his 22nd birthday — a legacy of hope. While this may seem trite, Steven passed away on the day he should have been in St. Louis with me to cheer on the St. Louis Cardinals (our favorite team) at the opening game of the Cubs/Cardinals series in St. Louis — tickets I purchased for his birthday. The Cardinals swept the series. I have a feeling that this was a way of Steven letting us know he was in a better place and that he is looking down on his family and friends every day, inspiring us to continue his legacy of caring and loving one another.

Lisa Olszewski Henn St. Louis