Organization still helping rescued children
Meet the Baird family: K.C. Kilpatrick Baird and Kyle Baird are with their children Hallie-Stella and Jayden.
For K.C. Kilpatrick Baird, what began as a nightmare turned into a dream – and is now a 10-year reality.
"Old, nasty clothes. Some diapers that were nasty, too." That's what 2 1/2-yearold Hallie-Stella and 18-month-old Jayden wore when the Louisiana D
epartment of Children and Family Services brought the children to Baird's door in 2013.
"I was shocked at exactly what it looks like when kids are rescued," Baird said. "I had no idea what a hot mess and horrible situation it really is until I saw it for myself. Then I knew what criminal abuse and criminal neglect – and how children are rescued – what it really looks like."
Less than a week later, Baird, who accepted Hallie-Stella and Jayden as part of a foster-to-adopt program, was on a one-woman mission to ensure every rescued child had basic living needs.
Geaux 4 Kids was born – an organization that advocates for children in crisis who are in an emergency foster care situation. A decade later, the organization will celebrate its 10th anniversary with "May The Force Be with You," a May 4 lunch fundraiser at East Ridge Country Club. May is also National Foster Care Month.
"I have overwhelming gratitude for all the community support," Baird said, thinking about her decade-long journey. "I'm trying not to cry. It was very hard that first night, to see children from criminal abuse and criminal neglect, and knowing those children represented about 4,000 children being rescued every year with nothing but the clothes on their backs, and who are coming from horrific, traumatic, dramatic situations."
Geaux 4 Kids' signature program is Project Geaux Bags. Baird said during the last 10 years, 15,000 bags have been distributed to children. There are pink bags for girls ages infant to 12 years old, blue bags for boys ages infant to 12 years old, and black bags for teenagers ages 12-18. Each bag has pajamas, underwear, a backpack, a pillow, a blanket, toiletries, comfort items, water, snacks and a note of encouragement from another child.
The bags are now distributed in all 64 Louisiana parishes.
"It's everything they would need that first night. … They have their own toothpaste, their own toothbrush, hairbrush, feminine hygiene products. … It gives everyone a chance to regroup and make a plan. They know they can get out of whatever dirty, nasty clothes they are in and start anew the next day."
Geaux
4 Kids has come a long way since Baird begged and pleaded for money
while collecting items and delivering bags out of the back of her car.
"I
had to piecemeal everything. That was more of a whack-a-mole situation.
I had to work fulltime to pay my bills. I was a full-time volunteer at
my own organization. I had to move it to different places all the time,
because people could only accommodate maybe 100 of our bags to pack. I
had to make sure to ask them for so many shampoos, and so many
conditioners, and so many hairbrushes."
All the while, she was describing her dream to anyone who would listen.
"I
took every opportunity that God put in front of me to tell people my
story. To tell people about my children. To tell people about children
that are in crisis. Even whenever I (as a social media manager) would be
waiting in the press pool for Governor (John Bel) Edwards to come in
and talk about flooding, and we would be talking, I would slip that in
there and let him know. He said, 'You need to do something about that.'
He gave me his contact people. … Every opportunity I had, I seized it. I
just prayed and showed up and talked and talked and talked. When people
invited me, I attended their events and talked."
But
in the fall of 2019, the future of Geaux 4 Kids changed – for the
better. When asked who was most responsible for that change, Baird
didn't hesitate.
"(Caddo
Parish) Sheriff Steve Prator. He helped me with the Louisiana
Commission on Law Enforcement's Special Victims Grant. Until then, I had
to always work full-time, managing (Geaux 4 Kids) as a labor of love
hobby versus lining it up as a statewide, fully-funded agency."
Overnight – a night that lasted six years – Baird received $100,000.
"I
fell to my knees and just started crying." Sheriff Prator remembers his
first meeting with Baird. "K.C. is a unique individual. I could tell
right away she was doing it not for the glory, not for the money, but
she was doing it for the kids, having been through what she had been
through. It just touched me in a way that I wanted to help, too, and I
knew we could do better than working out of the back of her van."
Having $100,000 to spend – it was a reimbursement grant – meant Baird could run Geaux 4 Kids like a legitimate program.
"Instead
of having to piecemeal things, I was able to make a plan, be able to
buy in bulk and be able to put (Geaux Bags) onto U-Hauls and distribute
them in bulk. That first grant, I was able to do 1,000 bags, which cost
$150 a bag."
"It
makes all the difference in the world," Sheriff Prator said of the
Geaux Bags project. "We – as first responders in law enforcement – see
people at their worst. We see them when they are in the valleys. Kids,
they didn't have anything to do with the environment they are in, but
they suffer from it. Anything we can do to alleviate any pain and
suffering and make their lives just a tiny bit better for right now,
until they can get out of what they're in, is good."
Just
because Baird received a $100,000 grant doesn't mean Geaux 4 Kids
doesn't still need money – especially from local people and businesses.
"They've
cut us down," Baird said of the Louisiana Commission on Law
Enforcement. "They have less money now because of Covid. They get their
funds from seized crimes. There is a funding shortage from seizing those
assets, because they didn't have anyone to go out and seize those
funds. Everyone is receiving a lot less, but we are still in that mix.
That's how we are able to operate on credit, buy in bulk, and distribute
those bags – with community support."
But money isn't the only thing Geaux 4 Kids needs.
"I've
learned to pray for resources, not just money. Resources can do things
money can't do. We are in (Bossier and Webster Parish District Attorney)
Schuyler Marvin's Family Justice Center. We don't pay for office space
because he has already granted us that office space. Same way with
Sheriff Prator. We don't pay for a warehouse because we use the
resources at hand. There are many ways people can help us."
As for the two children who showed up at Baird's house wearing nothing but dirty diapers?
Hallie-Stella
is now 12 years old "and super sassy." Jayden is 11 years old, "and
he's getting sassy. They are fine, pre-teen kids who are active in their
school, in their church and in our family. They love helping other kids
who they were once like. They really have a heart for anybody who is in
crisis and struggling. They remember that at the core of their being."
To learn more about Geaux 4 Kids and buy tickets for the May The Force Be With You 10th anniversary fundraiser, visit www.geauxbags.org.
15,300+ Geaux Bags made since 2013
$150 Approximate cost per bag
$2,000,000 In Impact for Our Community So Far
www.GeauxBags.org