From
making new friends to finding your math class, changing schools in the
middle of the year can be a real challenge for students.
According
to the U.S. Census Bureau, the percentage of Americans moving over a
one-year period fell to an all-time low in the United States — 11.2
percent — in 2016, but that still resulted in many children transfering
schools in the middle of the year.
Changing
schools in a particular grade or year can cause stress and adverse
developmental outcomes for children, said Sara Anderson, assistant
professor of learning sciences and human development at West Virginia
University.
“Friends,
family, a new home and a new school make for a host of transitions.
Trying to eliminate changes and transitions in other parts of your
child’s life may help his or her transition overall and can mitigate
stress,” she said. “For example, keep up with dinner and bedtime
routines. Make sure that after-school care is set up.”
Know the differences
Parents should be aware that educational requirements may differ across schools, districts and states.
“For elementary school students, there may be a different curriculum or behavior
management system. For high school students, make sure that your child’s
credits transfer,” Anderson said.
Find out what the consequences are for not completing homework and whether there are study halls.
“Also ask why homework is provided and how frequently it is checked, especially for the younger grades,” she said.
Fitting in
“Try
to get to know your neighbors and other parents,” Anderson said.
“Perhaps set up playdates for younger children to help solidify new peer
networks. And be sure to listen to your child’s needs. Pay attention to
behavioral differences, and make a few extra minutes for them during
the day to just listen and be there.”
Joining a club or activity could help.
“Often,
children do not feel like they belong to their new school. Getting to
know new students and joining in activities can help with that
transition,” she said.
Reach out
Clear communication with teachers, counselors and principals is critical.
“Being
informed in terms of what the school is like could help you ease the
transition for your child,” Anderson said. “For example, asking about
the school store, a new activity or a class she had that day could make
the new transition feel normal.”
If
you as a parent also contact the teacher, that opens up a channel for
communication that could help if the teacher needs to contact you.
“Bottom
line: Changing schools midyear can be stressful, but children are also
resilient, especially with supportive family and friends.”