Discovery Zone
Known as the “father of motivation,” is one of the most widely respected people in the field of self-empowerment. He became well-known with his best-selling book, Your Erroneous Zones and has gone on to write many other self-help classics. Dr. Dyer has a doctorate in counseling psychology. www.drwa ynedyer.com
Every now and then go away, have a little relaxation, for when you come back to your work your judgment will be surer; since to remain constantly at work will cause you to lose power of judgment… Go some distance away because the work appears smaller and more of it can be taken in at a glance, and a lack of harmony or proportion is more readily seen. - Leonardo Da Vinci (1452—1519)
The key word here is “balance.” To avoid being consumed by anything, you must be able to walk away from it. In the process of walking away, you begin to see your work, or family, or project from a perspective that “appears smaller,” according to Leonardo.
Leaving a fixed point and then glancing back at it does indeed cause the point to appear smaller. But from a distance you can actually take in more of that point, in one swift glance. Thus any weaknesses or flaws can be spotted in an instant. Even though Leonardo may be speaking as an artist, his advice is applicable today, irrespective of what your life work might be. I have found Leonardo’s advice to be applicable to me in my work of writing and speaking, as well as in other projects. When I leave my research and the yellow legal pads that I write on to go for a long-distance run, or simply go away for several days, almost magically everything seems clearer on my return. I am amazed by the insights I receive when I let go of my work. They seem to pop into my head in the moments when I am least connected to or attached to the outcome. The great Renaissance master is telling us to let go, relax, don’t try so hard, remove the struggle and allow our natural divine guidance to assist us. He says, “have a little relaxation, for when you come back to your work your judgment will be surer.” One way to do this in today’s world is to learn to meditate before you undertake any serious pursuit, be it a plan for conducting a business meeting, going on a job interview, giving a lecture, or painting a portrait. The very act of allowing yourself to go into a meditative state will improve your efficiency enormously. In the past ten years I have never gone before an audience without first spending a minimum of an hour (usually more) alone, in a state of meditation. When I emerge from my relaxing meditation, I find that I can walk on stage or pick up my pen with a sense of confidence that I am connected to a higher part of myself that knows no fear. I become an observer of myself doing the work, and everything seems to flow as if the hand of God is guiding my tongue or my pen. In the process of getting some distance between yourself and your work, and relaxing into that space, you are inviting divine
Happily Overheard
I told the doctor I broke my leg in two places. He told me to quit going to those places. - Henny Youngman