Kids’lives tend to only get busier as they get older, and an important
skill to help them both now and as they grow up is good time management.
Try these strategies to keep your teen on track this school year.
Learn to prioritize
Start
by giving teens a problem they can relate to. For instance, they know
if they have money, from a birthday or a summer job, they can afford to
buy one thing and not another.
Teach
them that time works the same way. They can spend that time on whatever
they want, just like their money, but they’ll need to prioritize tasks
to get the outcome they want.
Use tools
Instead of imposing a tracking system that might work for you, help your teen navigate the available tools for themselves.
Letting them pick gives them some skin in the game, which means they’re more likely to use the tools.
Systems not reminders
The
American Academy of Pediatrics recommends focusing on systems, not
reminders. Ask your teen to create ways of reminding themselves to do
things instead of doing the reminding (read: nagging) for them. And let
them fail once in a while. That’s how they learn.
Teach by giving chores
Reinforce
time management by assigning your teen time-oriented tasks, such as
remembering to let the dog out at a certain time. Make sure to recognize
them for completing the task on their own.
Break it down
Break
bigger goals down into more manageable chunks. Instead of a college
application deadline, set smaller deadlines of getting letters of
recommendation, writing the essay and mailing it off. Ask them to come
up with a flexible schedule for getting each task done and discuss with
them any challenges they foresee along the way.
Leave room for failure
Remember
that kids, like us, aren’t perfect. They’re going to make mistakes,
miss deadlines and mess up tasks. Invite them to learn from those
experiences and help them come up with ways to improve next time.
Limit time online
We’ve
all experienced the great time sink that is the latest and greatest
app. Start establishing healthy online habits as early as you can to
help the whole family better manage their digital lives.